The value of humor
There’s a common perception that people who love Jesus are dour and no-fun. I don’t think that has anything to do with why I value humor. But it does bear saying. That stereotype may impact me subconsciously. (I just basically said that the reason I try so hard to be funny might be because I’m afraid people think I’m not. How embarrassing is that?)
I value humor because humor communicates. It is easier to build bridges laughing than it is arguing. It humanizes people, levels the playing field, and puts people at ease. It helps friendships to develop.
It also has power in tense situations or with difficult topics. It lets us hear things easily that would otherwise be difficult or painful.
This is all true only when used well. Humor can also be demeaning. It can make people feel unvaluable. It can be the most off-putting thing about a person. I’ve met those people. Sadly, I think I’ve even been those people (that person, but, hey, it sounded better).
I care about humor and endeavor to use it (or point you to it) here because we can build common ground and see the world through each others’ eyes most easily when it’s funny.
